Friday, April 19, 2013

CAUGHT IN A COMPLICATED WEB: TWITTER & WATERTOWN OBSERVATIONS

I spent the better half of late last night following the Twitter feed surrounding the Watertown incidents. A lot transpired in the 2-3 hours I followed, and I couldn't help but feel compelled to get my thoughts out in the open in some way.

Mainstream media was denounced as irrelevant, having been swept by on-scene reporters and live-tweeters. Many seemed glued to the action, listening to Boston PD scanners and spreading news like wildfire. People claimed this to be the dawning of a new era, the death of outdated cable news. What most confused me about this particular part of the conversation is this doesn't seem like that much of a revelation. We saw it happen in 2011 with the Bid Laden Raid, and coincidentally, the other night I was Skyping with my parents who thought they felt an earthquake and the first thing I did? Take to Twitter to search and see if anyone else was talking about it or had more information (unfortunately, what they felt was the resounding blast from the West Texas explosion.) What I found most interesting is the value we gave small time reporters and the validity we believed them to have, and the speculatory nature of Twitter news. Let me say that while writing this, I am overwhelmed by the number of bases there are to hit, so I am going to hit on the two that are really lingered with me into the morning, and now afternoon.

We were inundated with information, and seemingly took much of it at face value. Reports of suspects names were rampant, and similar to a game of telephone, were passed on and on and on. One suspect in particular was the last name I read before going to sleep, only to awake and read that his identification was entirely wrong. It is incredibly devastating that that student and his family were on the receiving end of the internet junior gumshoes well-intentioned, but ultimately damaging speculation. The aching question I have is what stake do we have in this story? 

I don't want to discount the good citizen journalism has done; we cannot deny that we live in a unique world where every person cannot only be a witness, but have the tools at their fingertips to report quickly and to a large audience. But for whom does one report? There seems to be a thin line between reporting for the common good, for the sake of history, and for entertainment value or self-gratification. There were people tweeting their experiences and their observations, but then many more regurgitating this information from their own personal accounts. There were people, at home, in states far away, interpreting the various tweets they were coming across, and submitting that to the public. How many were seeking to pass on relevant information to necessary parties versus how many were simply wanting to be a "part of the action" from their bed? It comes to a point where it is strange and you have to question why people are participating in the conversation.


As I followed the story, I started to feel physically sick as I had flashbacks to footage I had seen of O.J. Simpson's arrest. I was young when the incident happened, so I don't remember much of the news coverage, but this December my parents were watching ESPN's Watch 30 for 30: June 17th, 1994 (here on Netflix.) I remember the hoards of people lining the streets, chasing the vehicles to get a glimpse firsthand, and to this day watching the footage still makes me uncomfortable. 




My largest concern in last night's events became are people able to do their jobs? To what extent do we sacrifice or compromise safety for reporting? And most importantly, why? One of my favorite quotes is about care versus curiosity - that when people ask how you are or about something specific in your life, some people care, but most are merely curious. I think it is important that we never lose the ability to take a step back and analyze what stake do we have in this story and what is my role? And what might we, members of the general public, be doing that could jeopardize someone else's ability to fulfill their role? The internet is a boundless forum and we're not sharing information with just our friends, or loved ones, or coworkers - we are sharing it with the world.


With all of this said, social media also served a great purpose in the wake of last night's events: connecting people and furthering dialogue. People across the globe were able to connect and communally process and reflect. It is my hope in coming days that we will continue to talk to one another about our personal observations and thoughts, and the implications of these events. What stake do we have in this story? To dissect and learn from it - to discuss, collaborate, and progress together from where we are now to ensure to the best of our abilities that things are better for the future.

Sunday, April 14, 2013

SUNDAY SNAPSHOT: SPRING HAS SPRUNG

Dinner with residents from 2008-2009! LOVE them!
H2$ with Christine at Sooner Theater
Ohh Kiera!
Gymnastics meet with Abby & Christine!
Amazing amazing amazing.
Soonerthon raised $196,034.62! 
Pi Day in our office!
nerding out with my buddy.
spring break crafting with the other RDs!
SPRING BREAK WITH MY PUPPIESSS.
Train rides through Oklahoma.
Again, my buddy. He's so silly.
Sooner Baseball game for Graduate Recruitment Weekend.
He thinks he's so cool! Trying to impress the candidates...
We saved some baby squirrels! So. Precious.
Wade and Troy unpurposefully matching :) :)
Staff sending me study playlists while I prep for comps!
Study study studying.
Morning of comps [bites fingernails.]
Hanging in Cate, found pictures of my old
favorite Catesters!
Month of March counted our acts of kindness.
Found a pic of these from last year! Miss programming.
President's Trophy Luncheon - so proud of Couch RSA
for all their hard work!
D.E.A.R. Day with our Staff. Seriously, read Pug & Doug.
So cute.
AH. Finally time for my baby to be introduced to the world!
4 of 5 contestants just 45 minutes before the show...
Best group to work with. Love them all so much.
All in all, it was a blast. Super proud of all those involved
and thankful for those who helped out every step of the way!
Couch Retreat! Minute to Win It with Janelle & Shelby.
Flower season around campus!
Love that everything is in bloom.
Enjoying what view I have while I can.
A little less than a month left here.

My time at the university is dwindling,
but I'm every so thankful for everything OU has given me.

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

3 THINGS MY MOTHER TAUGHT ME

In case you haven't heard, today is honeybee's birthday! In honor of this wonderful lady, I thought I'd write a blog post. For starters, we're almost completely opposite - my mother will always be the vivacious spirit in the room and I'm the bookish one in the corner. She has tapped into a part of life I haven't quite grasped, and I only hope one day I can live these lessons fully.
  • Live A Little: Lord knows most days I just want to snuggle in bed and catch up on Young and the Restless. I remember once being called a homebody, insultingly, and my mother saying that that's okay (I was, looking back at it, over-upset by that comment.) She has always done a great job at accepting my less-social qualities, but challenging them at the same time. Having lived in Germany at 22 and traveling Europe, my mother recognizes there is a lot of the world out there I haven't seen. She challenges me to be adventurous and make memories. Our oppositeness is probably strongest in this area as I take after my workhorse father, but my mother reinforces that you have to make time for fun. You have to invest in relationships, and you have to make every day about doing something new. And she's right - what am I going to do 30 years from now? Think back about the time I stayed late at work to file some papers and make some extra phone calls? I hope not.
  • Live Fabulously: I truly think it all started when she was named after Jacqueline Kennedy (Onassis.) She has always been one to put time into her appearance, and I absolutely love her for that. As a tomboyish child, we did not always see eye to eye, but now with 60+ dresses hanging in my closet, I'm thankful for all her attempts to introduce femininity into my life. But I think living fabulously isn't so much about what you wear, but about how you wear it - living fabulously is about confidence. Wear what you love, wear what makes you feel good. Put thought into your image and how you want to be represented to the world. Is life all about appearance? Of course not, but if you can look fabulous while doing whatever it is you're doing, why not? Every day is a good day for your favorite pink lipstick & Madonna's Immaculate Collection.
  • Practice Selflessness: My mother has always gone out of her way to do things for me, and she's a mom, so I get that that is sometimes a part of the job. She'll send me homemade dinners and boxes of goodies out of the blue, just to brighten my day, and it always does and I always appreciate it. Mostly she has taught me it is always important to make time for others. Treat everyone lovingly and compassionately. She has taught me that it is the smallest of things that may mean something. When people ask you of a favor, why not do it? Don't keep tabs. Life isn't about exchanges. I'm still not sure how she does it, but she knows a secret art to making everyone feel special - extended family, coworkers, random strangers. She always puts her best foot forward to stop and really listen to what is going on in people's lives and show them she cares.  I will always admire her giving nature and huge heart for people.

I love my mother somethin' special and am so grateful every day for her. Looking forward to yet another year with this lady!

Sunday, February 17, 2013

SNAPSHOT SUNDAY: TWO WEEKS

One of my staff members made me this at her floor
event! It says "Be Silly, Be Honest, Be Kind."

You really never know what you'll get in Oklahoma.
From pretty skies...

... to warm sunny weather ...

... to epic fog! It was foggy for a good 3 days.


Went to cheer on the Housing & Food Coma IM
Basketball team. They won!

This month's "passive" - making choices.

Staff dinner at Zios!

Then we went to hockey game! My FIRST to be exact.
A whole lot of fun for sure.

Crawfish Boil at Couch Restaurants! While I don't eat
crawfish, it was a neat experience & fun to see how many
residents really enjoyed the event.

Remember skies & sun & fog? We got snow too.
Only for about 5 hours though, and it was sunny the
next day!



Dr. Barker brought us treats to Practicum :)

Valentine's day! I gave my staff One Direction valentines,
& a staff member gave me this cute little monster one!

Yesterday two friends and I went to a local winterguard
competition - so much fun to be in that atmosphere again.
It'd be fun to work with HS extra-curriculars.

#BoomerSooner